My Best Efforts to Keep the Insurance Industry From Robbing Me Blind

This expense is one dragon even I cannot slay.

Happy Monday, ya’ll! Here is the latest post in my Annual Expenses series. If you didn’t see the introduction post that summarizes all of my expenses, you can check it out here. I’ve been going into detail on one category each Monday. Over 2017 and 2018, I spent an average of $3000 per year on insurance. To be honest, this category makes me sick since I don’t like betting against myself and have literally never received even close to what I’ve paid in premiums. Not one single year. There is a lot to discuss on this since it includes three subcategories: auto, homeowner/renter, and health/dental. And it is a highly variable expense category since insurance is based on personal factors. But I believe a minimal annual expense would be about $2000. And this is a great topic to go into since my annual auto/renter policy renews in early October and I’m going to be shopping around to try to get just a little bit closer to a reasonable amount – if that is even possible anymore.

I’ll start with health insurance since it is the most important. I’m very fortunate to have a solid plan through my employer that has a very low required contribution of less than $1000 total per year – and that’s pretax. Our dental insurance is less generous and as a result, I even went without it one year. But dentist appointments seem to be much more expensive than they are in the Midwest – about $300 on average versus about half that – so I got back on it. Anyway, admittedly, my minimum annual insurance number above requires an employee friendly setup because if I didn’t have that, it appears I would be paying about $4k total per year for fairly minimal individual health coverage. However, I would then have the advantage of being eligible to contribute to an HSA (health savings account), assuming I chose the right plan. An HSA is the add on you want. A FSA (flexible spending account) is only useful for those who have medical expenses that are both high AND predictable. Unlike an HSA, which is basically a bank account you own (but can only use for medical expenses), a FSA is a tax advantaged, but “use it or lose it” account. So only contribute what you KNOW you will spend or you could easily lose money instead of saving any.

The key with health insurance is really to stay as healthy as possible. It’s not going to be cheap no matter what you do, but if you have high medical costs, it’s going to be a lot worse. This is one of the reasons I said investing in your health is the best investment you could possibly make in one of my very first posts on this blog. This is also one of those areas where you’re going to pay through the nose for having kids, but that’s a whole other topic. Long story short on health insurance, go through your employer if they offer a decent plan and live the healthiest life you can so you can use it as little as possible. Frankly, if this industry doesn’t see dramatic changes over the next decade or so, this country is going to be bankrupt. So I don’t know how in depth it even pays to go into this. It is simply going to be a moving target for a while.

On auto insurance, I’m paying a bit over $1500 a year for a single vehicle, which makes me sick given that I paid just over half that much for two in Wisconsin (and not much more than that for three when I was married). But you only have to spend a day on Houston’s roads to see that the drivers here more than justify that difference. Dallas, San Antonio, and Austin haven’t been much better in my experience, so it’s possible that sky high insurance costs are simply a Texas thing and a well justified one at that. Anyway, nearly half of that is for collision, which you should only have if your vehicle is objectively worth at least $10k in my opinion, and the rest is for liability, comprehensive, and so forth. I have a 100/300 policy and I’m actually likely to increase that and add umbrella coverage in the near future since as my net worth skyrockets, so does my potential loss if I somehow hit one of these aristocrats who drive $400k Bentleys in an area with roads that are about one step above a war zone. And it wouldn’t even need to be a car that expensive. Sending someone to the hospital could cost far more than that very quickly, especially if they sue. And if it’s major, that’s probably more likely than not. It’s a calculation you need to make for yourself. If the vast majority of your assets are in retirement assets, which are typically protected in the event of bankruptcy, then you can probably afford to gamble a little by having the state minimum level of required liability coverage. However, if the opposite is true, then you’re probably going to have to pay for higher coverage limits as I do and be thankful that it’s necessary.

As far as saving on auto insurance, there are at least some things you can do. First and foremost, have good credit and a clean driving record. If you get a ticket, fight it. The ticket itself may only cost a hundred or two, but the increased insurance premiums could cost more than that on an annual basis for five years or more. Some states are better than others for this. I know people in states where they’ve been able to lawyer up and get out of anything and everything up to and including alcohol related stuff. In other states, it’s not even worth trying. Do your research and find out which your state is and act accordingly.

Definitely shop around with your policy. The rule of thumb is to do it every other year, but with as much as I’m paying, I’m doing it every single year until further notice. Loyalty definitely doesn’t seem to be rewarded at all as most insurers raise your rates each and every year now. About the only exception I’m aware of is USAA. If you are eligible to do business with them, thank your lucky stars and do so! I’ve heard nothing but good things. I’ve also heard good things about Amica, although every time I’ve gotten a quote from them it’s been way out of the ballpark so who knows. But most insurance companies are the same basic “charge sky high premiums, then forget your wallet when it comes time to pay the bill” scams operations.

At least by shopping around, you know you’re not getting totally screwed. Ask for the longest term you can get (usually it’s either a year or six months) since if you don’t, you’re effectively financing your annual premium and the interest rate is not low. Also, you can raise your deductibles to the max. Usually it’s only $1000 though, which limits the premium difference it makes. My attitude is that most accidents involve replacing a bumper, which is going to cost about $1000. I’m not going to make a claim and send my premiums into the stratosphere so the insurance company will hem and haw and finally grudgingly pay out five hundred bucks. No thanks. So I’d be paying the first thousand regardless in the event of a serious accident.

That’s another thing to keep in mind with insurance. Don’t make a claim if you don’t have to. Much like with buying extended warranties, you are extremely unlikely to come out ahead in the long run. If you do, you’re one of the lucky (although also extremely unlucky in another way of thinking) few. Think about it. If the insurance company (and warranties are sold by them as well) pays out more than it takes in, it goes out of business. So in most cases, you’re going to have to fight for every dollar. If the scope of the situation gets big, make sure the insurance company knows you will involve an attorney if you need to. And don’t be afraid to follow through with that either. Someone needs to keep the bastards honest. 

I saved the least important type of insurance for last, at least if you’re a renter. Most renters insurance I’ve ever had has included roughly $30k for personal property, which is enough for almost any apartment dweller, and has cost about a hundred bucks a year – yes, even in the insurance hell that is Houston. Usually I just get it as an add on with whatever auto insurance company I’m going with that year. Of course, it is much more significant if you are getting homeowners insurance since you’re insuring the exterior of the building as well. And if you live in a hurricane area like Houston, suck it up and pay for the flood insurance. In case you haven’t been paying attention for many years now, new storms “make history” on a very regular basis. Don’t assume you are safe just because the flooding didn’t reach your area in the past. People have literally lost their homes for doing exactly that.

If it hasn’t come through in the tone of this post, I fucking hate insurance. It is one of the only industries besides politics that makes finance look ethically upstanding. I get that there are problem customers like in anything else, but for the vast majority of us, this is going to amount to decades and decades of donating money to for profit entities. But if you keep an eye on them, both when making sure you’re paying a competitive premium, and when actually making claims, you can at least keep the bleeding from turning into hemorrhaging.

Don’t Be House Poor: How to Tame Housing Expenses

This is what a normally beautiful resort style pool area looks like when it floods during hurricane season. But one advantage of renting is that I didn’t have to lift a finger; the mess was cleaned up automatically.

Happy Monday, ya’ll! Here is the latest post in my Annual Expenses series. If you didn’t see the introduction post that summarizes all of my expenses, you can check it out here. I’ve been going into detail on one category each Monday. Over 2017 and 2018, I spent an average of $12,600 per year on my housing expenses. Please note that this only includes rent – not utilities, maintenance (I pay zero since I rent), or any other associated expenses. And that is actually trending upwards. This is the largest annual expense for most people and I’ve made tons of financial progress over the years by being very conservative with it. I still am in some ways, but I’ve definitely moved a significant distance along the cost/quality spectrum in 2018 and 2019.

What does that look like? For the last two years, I’ve lived in what I’d call medium-high end luxury apartment complexes. But I’ve also had one bedroom apartments, as much to maintain the more minimalist lifestyle I’ve learned I prefer as it is to save money. It’s hard to buy too much crap you don’t need when you only have 700 square feet to put it in. So I avoid clutter but also get to enjoy premium features in my unit, beautiful landscaping, great amenities, and a safe, quiet location. But even in the relatively reasonable Houston market, I’m spending more than I was in most of 2017 in the Milwaukee suburbs, which skewed the average down.

This year, I’ll have spent over $15k when all is said and done. I’ve allowed this form of lifestyle inflation to happen because I genuinely enjoy where I’m living and because it is still at an extremely manageable level relative to my total income. The conventional wisdom is to spend a maximum of 30% of your gross income on rent. My preference is no more than 10%, and grudgingly 15% if you’re paying a mortgage instead of renting (more on that later). I acknowledge this would be much more difficult with an income at or below the average range. But there are ways to do it, and without compromising on essentials like safety. And that is why I said I believe this expense can be reasonably kept to $6-10k.

How? For starters, by viewing things from a more traditional perspective. As individuals in today’s world, we are more isolated than at any previous time in the short history of our species. Only a few generations ago, someone living alone as I do was not only fairly rare, but seen as pretty unfortunate and even embarrassing. I think humanity has lost a lot in the process of abandoning our collectivist roots. And I say that as a man you can probably correctly guess is a pretty strong fiscal conservative. Long story short, live with someone. It requires careful relationship management, particularly if you choose to live with a romantic partner, but it can be done. I believe there are likely psychological advantages, even for someone like me who doesn’t need to do things that way for financial reasons. And with two (or more) people kicking in, it’s pretty easy to keep your annual rent expense below $10k in all but the most ridiculous markets, like New York City or San Francisco.

From there, follow the same process I always talk about. Think about what your needs truly are. If you don’t have a fancy car, you probably don’t need to pay more for a place with a garage. If you aren’t going to use a fancy resort style pool area, a gym, a spa, etc, very often, don’t rent somewhere where you’re paying for those things. If you want to be a hardcore personal finance warrior like the legendary MMM, consider paying more to be close enough to work to walk, bike, etc, and see if you can cut car ownership, the second largest expense for most people, out of your life entirely for a year or two. If you don’t care about hardwood floors and granite countertops, well, I think you get the idea.

What if you own your home instead of renting? Theoretically, it should be cheaper then, since with renting you’re paying for someone else to do all the maintenance as well as to have the option to leave on short notice. But in the reality of today’s hyper-inflated housing market, that’s often not the case. So my first advice in this area is not to buy something overpriced. Mark my words, eventually, even the mighty US housing market is going to get a dose of painful reality. Those who have been patient will be the beneficiaries when it finally happens. However, there is an argument for building equity (just don’t overestimate this factor or try to have any financial discussion whatsoever with your average real estate agent, who is desperate enough to say anything and knows/cares very little about economics or your financial well being), having a more permanent situation, fewer neighbors in close proximity, etc. So to allow for that value, which is certainly real in some cases, I would sign off on paying up to 15% of your income on a mortgage – preferably with a twenty year max term so you aren’t paying a fortune in interest or buying way more than you can truly afford. If you can’t do that, buy a less expensive house, rent another year, or look into renting out a room in the house. There are always options; never forget that.

Keeping your housing expenses well in check really only requires thinking a little bit outside of the box. Just because other people do things a certain way, that doesn’t mean you have to follow suit. There are way, way too many people out there who are “house poor” – in other words, their finances are unnecessarily constrained because they are paying way too much for their residence. P.S. If you want to live in Silicon Valley, ask yourself if you can get a job there that will pay you several times what a job in a reasonable housing market will. Keep in mind that the higher the income, the greater the diminishing return effect due to higher marginal tax rates. And spoiler alert, unless you’re a CEO or something pretty close to that, and you couldn’t get that kind of job anywhere else, the answer is going to be no.

What I Spend On Household Expenses and How I Do It

A boring picture for a boring topic, but anyway, one of the microfiber towels I mentioned can almost always be found on my kitchen counter

Happy Monday, everyone! Here is the latest post in my Annual Expenses series. If you didn’t see the introduction post that summarizes all of my expenses, you can check it out here. I’ve been going into detail on one category each Monday. Over 2017 and 2018, I spent an average of $700 per year on household expenses. For me, this category includes supplies that get used up like paper towels and toothpaste but it also includes items I use around the house that will be around a while but aren’t expensive enough to be considered long term assets. Examples would be small tools or a coffee maker. I think I could keep this category at around $300 a year if I were really careful about it. There isn’t any huge secret to saving money in this category. Just buy quality when it makes sense, cheap stuff when it doesn’t matter, combine those two when possible, and don’t be wasteful.

When I bought that coffee maker, I bought a nice, but very affordable stainless steel setup that will likely last me a long time. Before that, I had a simple, but effective $20 Mr Coffee version that may have outlasted me if I hadn’t given it away. Do your research before you buy. With coffee makers, for example, it really doesn’t pay to spend a ton of money on a complex, fancy machine, because the longevity tends to be terrible. On the other hand, you definitely get what you pay for with pots and pans and a high quality set will work much better and last you much longer than a cheap one. Note, I said high quality, not high priced. Spending more will typically get you better quality, but there is a diminishing return effect at a certain point. A little bit of research will show you where that point is.

Buying in bulk helps a lot with consumables. I’m a huge Costco fan and it doesn’t matter one bit that I’m a one man household. Paper towels, dish soap, toothpaste, deodorant, and tons of other items aren’t going to go bad before I can use them and I probably save hundreds of dollars a year buying them in bulk at Costco. Of course, Costco isn’t just for buying in bulk and I’ve talked a lot about that on this blog previously.

What’s better than buying in bulk? How about not buying at all? A package of microfiber towels probably costs about the same as a bulk package of paper towels and can do almost all the same things. But the difference is that when the job is done, the microfiber towels can be washed and reused. I haven’t bought any more paper towels since I learned that trick since I rarely even use them anymore. And there are probably other ways that concept can be applied that I haven’t even thought of.   

Finally, pay attention to what you’re doing. Little things add up over the course of a year. Soap is a great example. You don’t need to come anywhere close to filling the designated soap hole (Is there a name for that? I even googled it and couldn’t find anything) in a dishwasher all the way up for your dishes to get clean. Maybe 10-20% max is plenty. Right there, you could spend 5-10 times what is necessary on dishwasher soap and get absolutely nothing additional for it. Same goes for laundry detergent. Remember who puts the lines on the cap and how often they would like to have you coming back to buy more of their product. Healthy hair doesn’t need to be washed every day or anywhere close. Are you noticing the trend here? Figuring out the difference between necessity and convention with everything in your house can amount to a lot of money saved, particularly if more than one person lives in it.

This is kind of a boring category, but if you optimize it, you can still find ways to save hundreds of dollars per year versus if you don’t. And that is a quick description of how I keep my household expenses under control. Have a great week, ya’ll!

The Truth About All the Coffee Talk in the Personal Finance World

My simple, but wonderful at home coffee making setup – a burr grinder and a french press

“Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure nineteen [pounds] nineteen [shillings] and six [pence], result happiness. Annual income twenty pounds, annual expenditure twenty pounds ought and six, result misery.” – Wilkins Micawber in David Copperfield, by Charles Dickens

Lately I’ve noticed a new trend in the media that I would like to address. In most areas of life, it is generally accepted that you have to walk before you can run. You don’t just walk into the gym one day, throw four plates on each side of the bar, and start deadlifting it repeatedly. You have to start with a much more manageable amount of weight and train your body to handle more and more through sustained effort over time. And 405 is more than many people will ever deadlift in their lives so there is the crucial element of being realistic as well.

But with personal finance, there seems to be a backlash against that concept. If anyone dares to repeat the totally valid, if tired, advice that people replace $5 coffee drinks with $.10 ones they can make at home and enjoy just as much, they’re met with ridicule or even the vicious personal attacks that have sadly become commonplace in a world where so many people seem to in an ongoing competition to be more outraged by seemingly innocuous things than anyone else. Chase Bank, a bank I have mixed feelings about at best, was crucified for posting simple, actionable advice of that sort – advice that could help a lot of struggling people. And its CEO, again, a man I have very mixed feelings about, has become a political punching bag for some people who appear to have made it to adulthood without learning basic economics at any point along the way.

The theme of these attacks seems to be that people in general don’t make enough money, so giving them any financial advice that doesn’t involve being paid more money (by someone else) is condescending and insulting. In other words, it’s all someone else’s fault. It’s time for a reality check. No one on this earth is entitled to anything. And no, this is not political. I have to say that because the word “entitled” has been infused with bullshit political implications to such an extent that its mere utterance has become almost a war cry. In most of the world, people live in a reality where if they themselves don’t make something happen, it won’t. The fact that we live in the relative comfort of an incredibly prosperous place where life is incredibly easy does not change this reality. We’re all adults here. The days of someone else being responsible for us should have ended long ago.

If you want something, you have to earn it. If you want someone to pay you a lot of money, you have to give them a reason to do so. This typically involves using the infrastructure and resources of their existing business to make them more money, some of which can subsequently be paid to you. And outside of some very lucky folks, no one is exempt from this. If the board of directors didn’t think Jamie Dimon was creating more value than what he is being paid, I can assure you they would not be paying it to him.

If you don’t accept that concept, it’s going to be very difficult for you to have a successful career. Even if you start your own business, which is very difficult to do without experience, capital, or both, I can’t see a path to prosperity for you if you don’t believe everything has to be earned. It is imperative that many of us stop blaming our problems on others and start taking an honest look in the mirror and changing the things that are holding us back. It’s the only way anything is going to improve.

To that end, no, if you’re living paycheck to paycheck, you can’t afford a $5 cup of coffee. Even a few of those per week could cause you to pay a bill late and fall into a cycle of paying interest, late fees, etc, that could become very difficult to get out of. And it doesn’t stop with the paycheck to paycheck crowd. I very rarely buy a $5 cup of coffee. It is simply too easy to enjoy not just drinking great coffee, but making it, at home – and at quite literally 2% of the cost. This isn’t to say I never get coffee from a coffee shop, because I occasionally do. But usually I’m meeting with a customer, a friend, a date, etc, and the coffee itself isn’t the real reason I’m there. Buying the coffee is just an expense I have to incur in order to spend time in a particular place for a particular purpose. I’m already wealthier than most people and I’m only in my early thirties, but I didn’t get here by ignoring reality. In fact, I doubt almost anyone who is highly successful got there by enjoying luxuries before they could afford them. The only way to change reality is by first accepting it.

This is so much more than just coffee. No one is literally saying that cutting out a coffee shop habit is going to make you a millionaire. It is just an example of a very important concept that can be applied to many different areas. The same applies to a restaurant meal, which if made even a once a week routine, could easily turn into a $100 per month premium over equivalent food that could be made and eaten at home. I’ve seen people using Uber when they could drive to the same places and turning $10 worth of parking and gas into a $50 round trip in the process. Again, even at once a week, this costs over $100 a month over and above what it would cost to get the exact same thing done. It all adds up – and usually pretty quickly.

I think most of the outcry over this very valid and legitimate advice amounts to some bad actors trying to score points by telling people they don’t actually have to deal with reality. It’s easy to make people feel good telling them things like that. But it does them absolutely no favors. Some people see a $5 cup of coffee, a $15 restaurant bill, etc, and don’t realize what they represent. These are examples of doing things in wildly inefficient ways and especially when you’re first starting out, expenses like these can be the inches that make up the difference between winning and losing.

How important are the inches? Just look at the quote I opened the post with. If you spend less than you earn over a sustained period of time, even by just a little, you will build assets and life will get easier. If you spend more than you earn, you’re doing the exact opposite. The average person in this country has roughly $10k of credit card debt. Most of them didn’t rack that up overnight. It usually happens when someone is living at or close to the edge and gets hit with the inevitable unexpected expenses. If they can’t cover them with either excess income or savings, then the only option is to borrow. Too many people turn to credit cards, one of the worst forms of borrowing. It’s so easy. Almost anyone who can fog a mirror can get a credit card. And if you just pay a little bit each month towards the ever increasing balance, you can have pretty much whatever you want.

But there is always a cost. In this case, it is that as the interest grows, it becomes an expense of its own that does nothing for you and increases each month unless you pay down the principal. Instead of living on the edge, you’re now beyond it and gradually burying yourself deeper and deeper. It doesn’t seem like a big deal at first. But over time, the situation will not only get more and more difficult to dig out of; it will deprive you of opportunities you won’t even know you’re missing out on. Those opportunities come in many different forms, but the theme is the same. If you have money, you can use it to make more. The more you have, the easier life gets. That, in essence, is the American Dream – work, save, invest, prosper. What a tragedy that marketing departments, and another kind of enablers with political motivations, successfully turn so many people away from it before they even know what they’re passing on by taking the path of least resistance.

But those people don’t control you. Only one person on this earth does. You get to choose where you get your information, how you process it, and how to proceed from there. This is both a privilege and a responsibility, so take it seriously. The quality of your life depends on it. If anyone is trying to feed you sugar – something that tastes sweet in the short term but seems just a little too good to be true, ignore them. The sweetness is gone as soon as you swallow; but the fat ass you’ll develop over time is going to be with you much longer than that. Whether we’re talking about food or finance, you want to be taking advice from the same people: the ones who give you the tough love that doesn’t feel so good in the moment, but keeps you on the path of true progress. They’re usually the same people who are succeeding in their own lives – and these days, sometimes being demonized for that very success. They can help you get there as well. In fact, paying it forward is something many of them enjoy doing very much. But in order to benefit, you have to ignore the yes men (and women) who peddle easy answers that never deliver results. And then you have to listen to the proper advice and work your ass off carrying it out.

At the end of the day, it’s about who you want to be. Mr Micawber was a tragic character in David Copperfield. He realized his folly, but not until it was too late. Don’t let that happen to you. You can join the masses of lazy people telling lies, pointing fingers, and bitching because they haven’t been handed the results they want in life. Or, you can admit you don’t know what you don’t know (there is power in that, NOT shame), learn what it takes to actually succeed, and then get to work. The latter will get you results. The former will keep you from getting any further than you already have. Reject that. Learn, grow, and live a better life. It all starts with taking responsibility for yourself.

How Much I Spend on Gas and Some Ways to Spend Less

Even in the land of gas guzzling, we still have different degrees. Image courtesy of Jean-Marc Buytaert

Happy Monday, everyone! Here is the latest post in my Annual Expenses series. If you didn’t see the introduction post that summarizes all of my expenses, you can check it out here. I’ve been going into detail on one category each Monday. Over 2017 and 2018, I spent an average of $2800 on gas. This is largely because I drive a ton for work and for my other business activities. However, if I drove a typical number of miles in a year, I believe I could reasonably cut this expense down to about $1200. Are you spending more than that? Here are some ways you can improve the situation, form most effective to least.

1. Drive a fuel efficient vehicle.

Yes, this one is pretty obvious. But it’s the biggest reason most people overspend on gas. How many pickup truck owners do you know who do almost nothing but drive to work in them? How many SUV owners do you know who rarely have more than one or two passengers? These people are spending a fortune owning these vehicles – in many more ways than simply filling their gas tanks. I’ve been without my truck for almost two years now and guess what? I’ve managed to find ways to get by without it in most cases and when that hasn’t been possible, well, that’s why Uhaul and their ilk exist. Even some home improvement stores have trucks available to rent now. Renting a truck even ten times a year is much, much cheaper than owning one. So my advice is to think long and hard about why you’re driving what you are and whether you really need a vehicle that size. If you can’t get at least 30mpg on the highway and there isn’t a very good, consistent reason for it, you’re wasting a lot of money. In my case, I get roughly 30mpg on AVERAGE and drive a car with just shy of 300hp. Automotive technology has come a long way and compromise isn’t nearly as painful as it was years ago.

2. Keep your driving miles down.

There are lots of ways to do this. Carpool, combine multiple trips into single ones with multiple stops, skip going to things you didn’t really want to do anyway, etc.

3. Maintain your vehicle appropriately.

There is a good chance a poorly maintained vehicle will get correspondingly poor gas mileage. This is one way that a fair portion of your maintenance costs will literally pay for themselves. And that’s not to mention the money you’ll save in depreciation since a car that’s maintained ages more gracefully and is worth more money. Here is a post I wrote about basic vehicle maintenance.

4. Drive gently. If you’re adventurous, try some hypermiling techniques.

I’m not going to go into the extreme stuff here, although you should know there are people who can get literally double the EPA rating out of some cars. You can improve your gas mileage quite a bit just by accelerating gently, maintaining a good following distance, minimizing brake use (which is strongly related to following distance), etc. Driving your car like you’re on an imaginary race track isn’t going to save you much time anyway since you will still have to deal with the same (often horribly timed) stoplights and idiots going the speed limit in the left lane that everyone else does. And besides, any time saved will get eaten up pretty quickly when some revenue generator asshole traffic cop lights you up or you get into an accident. Driving aggressively really isn’t worth it and it has a devastating effect on your gas mileage.  

5. Buy the cheapest gas you can find.

I wrote a post with some more tips about this recently so check it out here if you missed it. Gas is the ultimate commodity item and yes, provided you’re doing an apples to apples comparison in terms of octane rating, it’s the same no matter what station you buy it from. I can’t believe how many people swear by the opposite. If you don’t believe me, drive by your local distribution center (likely in the middle of nowhere) and check out how many different logos are on the sides of the tankers – which are all lined up to be loaded with the EXACT SAME GAS.

6. Use credit card rewards to your advantage.

There are multiple credit cards that pay 3% on gas. Additionally, “category cards” like Chase Freedom occasionally pay 5%. This is free money, people. But if you don’t want it, no problem. That’s just more for me.

7. Go to your furthest away destination first.

While you’re planning your multiple errand trip after reading point number two above, consider this. Cars run most efficiently when they’re fully warmed up and this takes some time, depending on your climate. This is why if you live in a place with hellish winters, your winter gas mileage is substantially worse than in the summer time; it takes cars longer to warm up. Anyway, if you drive to your first destination a few miles away, then a few more miles, then a few more, etc, and turn your car off each time, it may never get fully warmed up and you may be losing tons of gas mileage. Contrast this with driving twenty miles to the furthest destination, completely warming up your engine in the process, then making your way back towards home. You want to be driving the highest possible percentage of your miles with your car running as efficiently as possible. Another way to plan out your trips is to avoid rush hour like the plague. Stop and go driving is bad for both your gas mileage and your car’s longevity. Few of us live in a perfect world, but most of us still have some options available that can make a big difference with things like this.

8. Regardless of climate, DO NOT leave your car “warming up” in your driveway.

I don’t know what they were doing thirty years ago because I’m not that damn old. But I do know that today’s cars are designed to run right away and also that idling is bad for them and should be kept to a minimum. I know it gets inhumanely cold in some places – for example, Wisconsin. But if you punish your car for that by leaving it sitting idling, you’re going to take a ton of life out of it in the long term and waste a ton of gas in the short.

Some Ways to Make Driving Great Again!

Between the low double digit gas mileage and the tight quarters inside, this Ferrari may not be the best choice for a road trip

My job involves a lot of driving. How much? Over the last three years of doing it, I’ve put on well over 100k miles. So I know a thing or two about this stuff. Today I’m going to throw out some random tips that I use to make life on the road a little safer, more efficient, and generally better.

Take care of your vehicle and it will take care of you.

This is an easy one. I’ve written about basic maintenance before. Whether you do it yourself or you have it done at a shop you trust, make sure it gets done.

Drive gently.

I’ve read about hypermiling techniques that allow people to get some pretty insane gas mileage. A lot of it isn’t necessarily practical for every day driving but the most important concept is; drive gently. Accelerate gradually, maintain plenty of following distance, and avoid abrupt braking. Not only will you save gas, your car will last longer and you will be much less likely to get into an accident. This can easily save you thousands of dollars over the life of a car.

Google Maps is pretty awesome!

I don’t even use the in car GPS systems anymore because Google Maps is way better. In addition to basic navigation, it allows you to search for gas stations and see many of their prices on the fly. It doesn’t have prices for every station, but it at least gives you a good idea of what area you’re likely to find the best prices in. And for anyone who doesn’t know, no matter where you buy your gas, it is exactly the same stuff. I talk to oil industry people all the time and that has been confirmed time and time again. So this is a commodity item and that means price wins.

But my favorite Google Maps feature is definitely the speed trap notifications. It isn’t a perfect system, but it is more effective than a traditional radar/laser detector in my opinion for two reasons. One, the range is much better. You can see speed traps miles away on the map. Two, there are far fewer false positives – a huge problem with even the best detectors. But the system is only as good as the data it has so please, let’s all be good citizens and put the word out whenever a revenue generation agent police officer is spotted trying to ruin someone’s day. Disclaimer: I support police most of the time and believe they provide a valuable service. But in this particular area, I believe Google is providing a much more valuable service than they are. To report a speed trap, click the little plus button on the right side of the screen in Google Maps. We need as many people doing this as possible!

I tried an app called Upside and well, not everything works out.

The app supposedly pays a rebate whenever you buy gas. But you have to take a picture of your receipt every time and that’s a pain – even if the pump isn’t out of receipt paper, which is often the case. And in my experience, after the teaser rate on the first fill up, it was almost always one cent per gallon. Also, usually only the more expensive gas stations in the area were available on the app. A one cent per gallon rebate isn’t worth much if you’re paying ten cents more per gallon to begin with. There was also a restaurant option available that paid much better, but the selection was atrocious. I did, however, use that to buy enough chicken sandwiches at Burger King, which are surprisingly decent now, to get over the $10 cash out threshold and make the whole thing at least pay off a little.  

As usual, Costco rocks.

If you can get your gas there, you will likely save at least ten cents a gallon versus the next cheapest station in the area.

Speaking of gas, if you’re getting less than 3% back on it, you’re leaving money on the table.

Both the Wells Fargo Propel credit card and the Bank of America Cash Rewards card offer 3% back in this category. Occasionally the quarterly 5% cards like Chase Freedom will pay out on gas. There are probably several other cards that do at least this well, too.

AAA is a pretty worthwhile service if you drive long distances often.

Peace of mind is worth a lot when you’re in a strange place. If something happens, it’s nice to know you’re a phone call away from getting help and that in many cases, you won’t even have to pay for it. In a lot of places, especially in the more rural areas, the tow truck business is quite a racket. With AAA, even if you do end up having to pay, you will at least be dealing with one of the more reputable options in the area (or at least one that likely doesn’t want to risk losing its AAA business by pissing off customers) without having to do the research on your own.

If Discount Tire is available where you live, you’d be a fool not to buy your tires from them. And yes, I know that my favorite store sells tires. Even Costco isn’t the best at absolutely everything.

These guys have the tire business down to a science. They have great selection, the best prices, and great service. They check/correct your pressure whenever you want and free rotation is included with your tires. But the best part is their warranty. 99% of the time I am not a warranty advocate. But Discount Tire is an exception. For about twenty bucks a tire, they will repair or replace any tire you have any issue with during the warranty period. This is all fresh in my mind because on a recent trip to the oil country, it was so hot that one of my tires exploded as I was driving. Thankfully, I wasn’t far from the nearest town when it happened. I did have to wait a day for the specific tire I had to get there (to be fair, they did have another option available, but I didn’t want mismatched tires so I opted to wait), but given how far out in the middle of nowhere oil country is, that was actually impressive in my opinion. And rather than having to pay $200+ for a replacement tire (high performance, 18 inch, low profile tires are expensive anywhere you go; Discount Tire’s price is still easily the best), I only had to pay the twenty bucks to renew the warranty on the tire that was being replaced for free. With tire prices being what they are these days, and with roads being as bad as they are in many places, this warranty is a no brainer and has already paid off more than double for me with about half the life of the three remaining tires left to go.

Have a great Wednesday, folks! And be safe out there!

How Much I Spend on Fun Activities and How I Do It

A picture from a tour at St Arnold Brewing Company – the oldest craft brewery in Texas

Happy Monday, everyone! Here is the latest post in my Annual Expenses series. If you didn’t see the introduction post that summarizes all of my expenses, you can check it out here. I’ve been going into detail on one category each Monday. Over 2017 and 2018, I spent an average of $2100 on fun activities. This is really a category I could cut down as much as necessary if I had to. Like most of my spending categories, I don’t have a particular target in mind; I simply make sure that if I’m spending money on something, there is a good reason.

This category includes most of what I spend on dating. And the reason I’m able to spend so little in that normally very expensive area is that over the years, I’ve learned that trying to impress women by spending money has consistently gotten me exactly the opposite of the outcome I was looking for. Yes, I should have known this long before I did, but I had that same single mother upbringing that has proven so disastrous to a huge portion of my generation and it has taken a ton of constant, ongoing work to deprogram the many erroneous lessons I didn’t even realize I was learning over the years. I’m not trying to disparage the efforts of my mother or any other single mother, many of which are nothing short of Herculean. However, from my own life and from observing our society at large, it appears painfully obvious to me that a boy needs a strong, consistent father figure in his life and if there isn’t one, he is likely to make more than a few missteps in the process of figuring things out on his own. But that topic could be an entire series of posts all by itself. For now, I’ll just say that trying to buy your way into a woman’s heart (or into any other part of her) is not an effective method.

Anyway, if I want to have fun, I have fun. But here is the important point. In my life, almost everything has a purpose. So with the free time I have available, I want to enjoy myself but I also want to better myself in at least some way in the process. For example, a lot of my “fun” activities are physical activities like weight lifting, tennis, basketball, swimming, hiking, etc. Most of these benefit my health and fitness level, benefit my mind as I improve a skill set, and also happen to cost me little or no money. I also enjoy reading, cooking, volunteering, and learning to fix things like cars, electronics, plumbing, and so forth. I’ve found that personal growth is what makes me happy and thus, I tend to have fun while learning and increasing my capabilities in various areas. In general, if you can find ways to enjoy yourself while also creating value, you will be able to have fun without spending much money.

Even most social interaction doesn’t have to be expensive. Sure, I go out for drinks, to museums, and various other attractions like most people do. But those tend to be more special occasion activities and with most of my friends, our most common activities are hanging out, grilling, going to the beach, playing some pool, etc. We will occasionally have a roller coaster day that will cost us each a hundred bucks or so or go to a football game and drop more than that. But these are every now and again type activities and as a result, they are special treats when we do them. Contrast that with the people who spray money like a fire hose everywhere they go and then go home to worry about how they’re going to pay their bills. Are they having any more fun than my friends and I are? I doubt it.  Spending money can be required for particular activities, but it isn’t required for meaningful interaction. It’s all about deciding what is really important to you – the activity itself or the people you’re doing it with. If you have the right people involved, it really doesn’t matter what the activity is.

It’s important to have fun in your life. That I will not dispute. But spending a lot of money usually isn’t what gets you there. It’s all about figuring out what you truly enjoy and making that the focus. And if your focus is on spending money, you’re going to live a very stressful life because you can outspend absolutely any income. In my experience, stress is pretty near the opposite of fun.

What I Spend on Restaurants and How I Do It

A recent restaurant meal I had in a hotel bar on a rare trip to Los Angeles, CA

Happy July, everyone! This is the latest post in my Annual Expenses series. If you didn’t see the introduction post that summarizes all of my expenses, you can check it out here. I’ve been going into detail on one category each Monday. Over 2017 and 2018, I spent an average of $500 per year on restaurant meals. A lot of people really blow it financially in this area. I’m in a particularly fortunate situation, which is why my restaurant spending is exceptionally low. A reasonable amount to spend on restaurants could certainly be higher in most cases – maybe $1-2k a year or even more if one has the resources. But on a minimum budget, you would spend $0.

Why is my restaurant spending so low? I eat at restaurants for a living – often very nice ones. Wining and dining people is in the job description. So psychologically, I’m usually pretty restaurant-ed out and prefer to eat food I make at home – which is often as good or better than restaurant food anyway in my humble opinion. I do go out on dates and what not and in my imperfect system of recording spending, some of that winds up in this category and some in the “fun” category. But as you will learn next week, Monday, I don’t spend terribly excessively in that area either. Mostly, I live a fairly quiet, low key lifestyle since I get that stuff out of my system on someone else’s dime while I’m working.

But how would I keep restaurant spending reasonable if I didn’t have the job I have? The underlying mindset is the same as everywhere else; figure out what I actually enjoy about the experience, cut out the superfluous stuff, and keep everything moderate overall.

I come from a lower class background and even after eating hundreds of meals over the last few years at restaurants ranging from sandwich shops all the way up to high end steakhouses and seafood restaurants where the menu prices are in whole dollar amounts with many items sporting three figures, I haven’t quite gotten comfortable with the idea of someone else serving me. So that element is not primarily what I enjoy about restaurants, even though I can certainly appreciate that rare waiter or waitress who has taken the craft to the level of art. The parts I truly enjoy are delicious food and spending time with other people.

And as it turns out, neither of those requires going to a restaurant at all. Instead, whenever I can, I enjoy both of those things at home. That offers the bonuses of knowing exactly what is in my food and being able to optimize everything for nutritional value, cost, and personal taste. I’ve even learned to enjoy the process of preparing food; there is certainly a creativity to it if you’re doing it right. And while not everyone sees things this way, I take pride in my entertaining and I think cooking for a special someone amounts to sharing much more of myself than what I would by going to a restaurant with her.

Besides, the restaurant experience, like so many others in our historically rich society, has become so routine that it has lost much of what used to make it special. I believe eating in restaurants several times a week is unhealthy for us on multiple levels. So I probably only go to restaurants a handful of times a year outside of work. And when I do, it is usually an event. Even if I didn’t have the job I do, I probably wouldn’t go more than once or twice a month. So that’s my biggest tip to saving money at restaurants – learn to enjoy cooking for yourself and in the process, keep restaurant meals the special treat they really should be. And that doesn’t have to cost you a minute either. My repertoire includes time consuming recipes but also plenty that can be produced in no more time than would be spent waiting at a restaurant anyway. Sometimes I take the scenic route but a lot of times I take shortcuts. It gets easier with experience.

When you do go to a restaurant, there are certainly ways you can minimize the expense. First, keep the drinks to a minimum. It’s very easy to double a restaurant bill just by ordering a few drinks per person and in most cases, you are drinking the exact same thing you could have at home for 10-20% of the cost. Another technique is to be mindful of portion sizes. Most restaurant meals contain over half the calories a typical person needs to consume in an entire day. So appetizers really aren’t necessary and in fact, you should probably eat half the food you are served, or even less than that, and then save the rest to bring home and enjoy again later. If it’s a romantic evening, you may want to share an overpriced dessert. Otherwise, you almost certainly don’t need one at all.

I want to end with an important point. To a financially responsible person, restaurants are a luxury spending item. Please do not stiff the wait staff. Like it or not, here in the United States, the restaurant business model involves paying these people practically nothing – so they rely heavily on tips. If you can’t afford to tip (when and where appropriate, of course), you shouldn’t be eating at a restaurant at all in my opinion because in effect, you are not paying for the service portion of the experience. Imagine what it would be like if your employer left it up to customers to decide how much you got paid. I didn’t create the system, but I definitely don’t believe in screwing people over to save a buck, regardless of whether I agree with the way their employers operate. That is a great example of the difference between financially responsible (as I’ve mentioned, I hate the word “frugal”) and cheap.

Have a great week, folks!

What I Spend On Groceries and How I Do It

A recent meal of turkey lasagna, roasted squash, and green peas (I probably wound up having seconds on the lasagna)

Happy Monday, Everyone! Here is the latest post in my Annual Expenses series. If you didn’t see the introduction post that summarizes all of my expenses, check it out here. I’ve been going into detail on one category each Monday. Over 2017 and 2018, I spent an average of $1700 per year on groceries and I believe I could spend a reasonable minimum of $1200 per year if I had to. This is one area that always blows me away when I read about what people typically spend on it. Supposedly the average is about $3000 per year, per person. Then again, the average American reportedly wastes about a pound of food per day, so that is part of the reason for such a high number. I do all I can to avoid EVER wasting food and probably throw away less than one item per month. But before I go any further, I do have to ‘fess up to one advantage. I eat three to five meals per week at restaurants in a typical week as part of my job, which saves me some food I would need to make at home. And actually, during 2017 I was traveling a lot more and probably ate twice that many meals. So admittedly, my spending would be higher if not for that. However, as a very physically active man, I also eat significantly more total calories than a typical person does and as a result, I believe things balance out to some degree.

As with most shopping, my grocery strategy begins at Costco. Yes, I am only a household of one. But there are still plenty of foods I am able to buy in bulk and consume quickly enough to avoid having them go bad. Some of the many items I can think of off the top of my head that I buy regularly include the mixed bags of organic spinach/kale/other stuff that tastes like grass clippings, tortillas, eggs, butter, cheese, coffee, olive oil, spices, boneless skinless chicken breasts, fish, and assorted frozen foods I can make once in a while when I’m feeling lazy. Absolutely every item I just listed is a great quality/price combination at Costco, with many of them being substantially cheaper than any competitor’s offerings. I don’t buy much produce at Costco, however. That doesn’t seem to be their strongest priced area.

If I don’t buy something at Costco, I go to HEB, a regional chain here in Texas that has solid selection and an “every day low pricing” model. When I lived in Wisconsin, there was a similarly excellent option called Woodman’s. Either way, I take the lazy approach of shopping at stores that offer the lowest prices most of the time rather than shopping at several different ones looking for sale prices that are occasionally a little bit lower. I know people who do things that way and there is certainly money to be saved, but I simply don’t have the time available to be able to execute that strategy.

At the grocery store, my focus is on buying mostly “raw materials,” which tend to be both the cheapest and the healthiest versions of foods. I buy the most in the produce section. Flexibility is key here. Everything has a peak season when it is plentiful and cheap and I plan my cooking around that to some extent. For example, when pineapples are less than $2, I buy them more often and sweeten up my green smoothies with them. And since lately avocados are about double what they are normally, I’ve been using them much less or skipping them altogether. After the produce section, I typically go to the meat section the next most, followed by the frozen section where I buy lots of frozen vegetables. These are a great value because they’re flash frozen almost immediately after being harvested, meaning they’re both fresh/nutritious and benefit from the economy of scale pricing that results from mass production. I do occasionally venture into the middle aisles, where the most processed food lives, but only for particular items when I need them, usually for a particular recipe.

In practice, this usually ends up being a couple trips to both Costco and HEB each week. If I’m just buying my regular stuff, I usually end up spending about $10-15 total on groceries each of these trips and $20-30 per week. Every now and again I stock up or buy special items for recipes and spend a little more. But I never feel like I have to deprive myself in any way to spend what I do on groceries. I guess the only caveat is that since I buy food mostly in raw, unprocessed form, I do spend a fair amount of time cooking. But since I enjoy doing that, and enjoy the results even more, I don’t really see that as a cost. That’s the advantage of learning to enjoy activities that happen to help you to live a better, healthier life and save money in the process.

Anyway, hopefully this gives someone an idea or two. Have a great Monday, Ya’ll!

What I Spend on Clothes and How I Do It

Here’s a fashion-y looking picture. – Image courtesy of Jean-Marc Buytaert

Hola! This is the third post in my Annual Expenses series. If you didn’t see the introduction post that summarizes all of my expenses, check it out here. I plan to go into detail on every category with a post on one each Monday. Over 2017 and 2018, I spent an average of $700 per year on clothes and I believe I could spend a reasonable minimum of $100 per year if I had to.

Clothing is in a seemingly unique position amongst expense categories. That’s because there is so much of it in the world that even very poor countries have all they need and then some. So theoretically, you could spend next to nothing in this category. That would probably involve shopping at places like Goodwill or the Salvation Army. You might not get exactly the style or fit you wanted, but it would be adequate to serve the purpose of covering the areas of your body our overly puritanical society deems necessary to cover as you went about your day to day activities. I’d estimate that would cost about $100 per year, per person. But for just a little bit more than that “bare bones” budget, you can have your cake and eat it too.

I only buy high quality clothes that are always in style but not necessarily “fashionable.” My closet contains mostly polo shirts (mostly Ralph Lauren and Calvin Klein), long sleeved button shirts (both dress and casual), jeans, and khaki pants. I also have a handful of suits I almost never wear (if I did, I would probably go out and spend a grand or two on a couple of really nice ones to replace what I have and leave it at that) and five total pairs of shoes that give me every option I need. I also have some winter clothes in case I ever visit Wisconsin in the winter (that’s October through April, or sometimes May) again – which is very doubtful. I’m trying to be better about only buying clothes I love that fit exactly as I want them to and returning them if I decide I failed with a particular purchase.

Over the last couple of years, I’ve done more and more of my clothes shopping at Costco to the point where now it’s fairly rare for me to buy something anywhere else. I’ve mostly stopped buying Ralph Lauren stuff because I hate the “tennis tails” on their shirts, their quality control seems questionable (I have over a dozen of their shirts, all in the same size and in one of two styles, but they are a fairly wide range of lengths and fits), their stuff is overpriced unless bought at an extreme discount (which is, of course, the only way I ever bought it), and finally, I already have their polo shirts in almost every color I want and they last about a decade. These days most of my polo shirts come from Costco and are both high quality and cheap like almost everything else the store sells. That’s where I started buying the Calvin Klein ones for about $15-20 each. I also have some of the 32 Degree Cool brand which is great for southern weather, decent quality, and even cheaper. I buy all my socks, underwear, undershirts, etc there now. I even buy most of my shoes there – usually for $20-30 a pair. So far I have yet to be disappointed with any of this stuff.

I’ve just about finished my obligatory post divorce closet overhaul, which took about three years. So now I’m transitioning from that phase to a “one item in, one item out, upgrades only” phase I expect will last for the foreseeable future. As a result, my spending will likely decline to probably $2-300 a year or maybe even less. And again, these will be only high quality, great fitting purchases to replace either lower quality/worse fitting clothes or worn out ones.

I don’t really do anything revolutionary in this spending category but my spending is low and getting lower. I do acknowledge that things will almost certainly be more expensive for women. Not only are they judged more on their appearance than men are, but they have much more unique bodies, which makes getting clothes that fit well into a much more complicated process. Plus, their clothes are much less durable in most cases. But what can I say? If you want the fun of a sports car, you have to accept the realities of paying for premium gas, nearly constant repairs, high insurance premiums, etc, that all come with it. However, there are ways to moderate those costs and still have your fun – with both cars and women. The same general concept of buying more high quality, timeless styled clothes and less “fast fashion” or very outfit specific items would probably also help women. My ex-wife was pretty good at doing things that way and she certainly always kept herself looking good. And gentlemen, that is a very rare and valuable quality. Almost every woman I’ve dated since has spent much, much more to accomplish the same feat. But I feel like we’re blurring the lines between this topic and a totally different one. Anyway, have an awesome day, folks! Kick some ass out there!